Berlin is kind of famouse for it's openminded and hedonistic culture. It's probably the only city in the world, which doesn't fight against it, but support it. Party harbours of the past, like London, Sydney or many cities in America lost a lot of their party culture, as goverments shot down locations and set early closing hours.

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So lucky Berlin, we can still have some fun. And especially kinky fun :) So here are the things you shouldn't miss:

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Open for all events:

 

- Berghain: is famous all around the world, not only for it's music and door policy, but also for it's kinkyness. You shouldn't miss it if you are in Berlin, but if you miss it, than probably you had a lot of fun in some other places :)

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- CarneBall Bizarre: every saturday KitKat has its own club night, the carneval bizzar. It is one of the evergreens of Berlins kinky life, which you shouldn't miss when you are around. 

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- Die Teegesellschaft: that's our kinky salone with shows, talks and kinks. Thee, what to say, it is awesome, exactly, what I personally always wanted to have: a small, cozy and easy going group of people, enjoying a lifestyle, which is meaningful, but based also on kink and a kind of crazyness ;) If you didn't chek it our so for, you have to do it! Get your presales tickets and be there before 9 PM to get in. 

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- House of Red doors: A great playful party with always another topic. It is on thursdays and not frequently. The audience is kind of hedonistic mainstream, not too alternative, but all kinds are mixed together :) So if you wanna make it, be sure and well prepared for it.

Make sure to check the webpage to have the right themed outfit along!

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- Kinktastisch: that's a new kinky dance and play party, organized by a friend of mine. It is just about to start and so I am very curiouse about it. I will give you some more insights, as soon as I have experienced the first event!

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- Kinky in Wonderland: well, that's us and welcome to the wonderland. It's a mix of kinky and fantasy outfits in an openminded environment with shows and mean little details, which we make for you with a lot of love!

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- Smut Slam: Talk dirty baby ;) That where you can listen to and tell all the little stories of the naughty live. Be there early as it is crowded quickly. 

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- Peepshow: a very classical gay-straight-hedonistic crowd. Dressscode is needed, but not as strict, as many other parties we already mentioned. It takes place on last friday in KitKat Club.

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- Pornceptual: Starting as an underground party it become now one of the biggest sex-positive parties in Berlin. Major orientation is kind of "dirty porn art sex". Or let's say: let's make porn an art and love our sexuality. Therefore it targets kind of an alternative, underground crowd, but become more and more touristical. A 'problem' (?) for many events, which become bigger and bigger. So make sure, that you really fit the dresscode to get in!

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- NEW!!!! Strange, ... but interesting!: Here people of different communities are comming together at this social and play event. It's a sex- and kink-positive room, where different interests and people experience each other. As a special high light there are crazy art exhibition and kinky games played, which are animating to get in physical action with other people or you can just watch.

- Wasteland: Ones a year, the party from Amsterdam comes over to Berlin and welcomes the crowd at the famous KitKat club. It is fucking expensive and I didn't make it there yet, but the pictures from Netherlands look already great, KitKat is great. so the party must be awesome. Tell me if you have been there!

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gay & queer events:

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- man2man - Bondage & Play: That's probably Berlin's most interesting and cozy men-only bondage event. The atmosphere is super-friendly and makes it easy to get in contact with like-minded guys. The people are open-minded and friendly and in average younger than at similar events. There is space for socializing, cuddling, sex and for sure, a lot of bondage and SM. Currently it takes place the first thursday of the month at SinBerlin.

 

- gay-BDSM.club: These events are focused on kinky BDSM events for men and queer people. They have a themeday ones a month, which includes a workshop a special theme-party and afterwards an unthemed general social and play event. It's a very special and kink-positive event, where it's easy to get to know new people and have a great kinky time. But can be also for chatting and enjoying this great atmosphere and vibes of those events. 

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- SMash!: A party for colorful kink and fetishes for a gay and queer community. The event is in Club Culture Houze every 4th saturday and offers an introduction round to kink, where you learn about all the things you should nkow and get to knew other people.

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General information about kinky events in Berlin

 

If you want to experience kinky Berlin, than you musn't miss the kinky parties of Berlin. Eventhough it might look all are similar, there are many differences in the details. Some parties with a more artful attend even try to 

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Those parties are open for all sexual orientations and all genders. You shouldn't be scared about public sex, nudity or similar. Main music style is techno to electro, but variates from party to party a bit... (deep house, goa, ...)

 

For the mentioned kinky parties, it is absolutley relevant to have a fitting dresscode and know the name of the event and the location, as well as to know what the party is about. Talk to some people who have already been there to get more informations. Make sure to check the facebook or webpage! You can also contact us, if you don't find someone else.

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Mobile Phones and cameras are not allowed. Better leave them at home before coming.

 

Eventhough those parties are NOT sexparties. Some are more sexual, than others. If you wanna get laid, go somewhere else. If you like the idea of probably being laid, but majorly focusing on a great party with sexual vibes around you. Than welcome to kinky Berlin :)

 

 

The dresscode-Myths in Berlin

There are many myths about the dresscode and how to get to the parties and the door policies. It's never sure, that you get in or not (it also counts for me). For some events it's even part of their concept to keep it exclusive and hard, but most events want to make sure, that the people getting in are a match to the existing crowd and enrich the party. Therefore make sure, that you know about the party, that you know what others might expect from you and that this is really a party for you. If the door thinks, that you wouldn't have fun at the party or even disturbe the party, they wont let you in. And that's actually good for you and the party.

 

No kink or sex positive party can become good, if the people don't understand the concepts of respect, open-mindedness and the related lifestyle. Tourists often are not so familiar  with those concepts and therefore have it harder to get in.... But on the other hands, no party is great if it only attractes the same people. So just be prepared and you will make it :)

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